don’t lose hope

Hi:)) thanks for reading this

Imagine this, you are walking to class the week after you wrote your test. You are scared that you won’t get a good grade and won’t be able to get an exemplery(or the highest grade) and you are nervous. When you get your grade it is not what you expected but actually the opposite and its a grade you thought wasn’t possible to get and you are happy. But then you see someone with a grade that they don’t look happy with and they look stressed. What do you do? It could be the other way around completely as well. Everyone in science gets a Mastery or Exemplary and you get a Consolidating in a subject you thought you worked so hard for. You feel disappointed in your self, as usual.

This feeling is what we all feel at some point in our lives, unfortunately some people feel this every second of their lives and some people feel it very irregular. This feeling hurts, I know. The feeling of when you put so much effort into making other people happy, so much effort into trying to be a good person in everything you do.. And you see the absolute opposite result that you hoped for. You feel useless, unwanted and stupid. You feel like you just did all this work for nothing. This feeling will come back during your whole lifetime. This feeling sucks, Some people forget their purpose in life, the purpose that will help other people but mainly themselves. This purpose allows you to see the end goal. But without one and feeling rejected how is this possible? Life is not fair, you need to accept it. No matter how much you deny it, we all know that it is true. These feelings define us as people and make us who we are. We can choose how we want to take these feelings and turn them into a motivation.

But it is important to keep going. Don’t forget who you are. So many people think that they can’t get back up. But it is possible ,everything is. You don’t need to prove what you are capable of to other but to your self.  Losing hope can hurt you more than anything. Be strong for yourself. Don’t worry about anything else and you will be sure to see some changes and if you don’t , don’t worry. I always like to think that if I know that I am being true to myself and I put in the effort , I know I have done my part. Young teenagers and students are put under pressure to be how the others are and they don’t realise that they are growing. You will be tested on so many subjects in life, but life gives you other tests as well and these tests are the most important ones. These are the ones that matter the most. So, don’t worry about what the paper says and do what your heart tells you to do. You deserve so much in life , when you have faith in what you’re asked to do and what you do everyday. When you do the right things and put in the correct effort you will get back the right treatment. You are a great person and dont forget it

Thanks!!

Have a great rest of the day!